Indian Bridal Jewelry Sparkles Exotic

Colorful jewelry plays a pivotal role Indian wedding ceremonies, and Indian bridal attire comprises dozens of pieces of glittering gold, diamond and gemstone-set jewelry that together create a magnificently opulent look. Indian bridal jewelry tradition dates back thousands of years, and the bridal jewelry set has changed little over time.

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Indian Bride Jewelry

The bridal “look” includes a number of individual pieces of jewelry: some of the jewelry is mandatory and plays a symbolic role in the nuptials, while other jewelry pieces are merely decorative. Preferences generally lean towards yellow gold jewelry, although in contemporary weddings it’s not uncommon to see jewelry made from white gold, platinum, copper or silver, either to suit the bride’s personal tastes and to better accessorize her particular bridal gown, or in order to stick to a slimmer budget.

Gem-set jewels are also abundant in the bridal get-up, especially deeply colored precious and semi-precious gems such as rubies, amethysts, emeralds, jade and garnets, as well as diamonds and pearls.

Traditions vary according to region, but the basic jewelry elements are the same. The “Bridal Set” consists of a matching necklace and earrings. Large dangling gold earrings encrusted with precious gems or colorful crystals are typical, worn to match a heavy and ornate gold necklace, also encrusted with colorful gems.

The “Shringar Patti” and “Maang Tikka” are sort of bejeweled tiaras, worn along the hairline at the forehead and down the part line, usually made of gold. They feature a bejeweled gold pendant that dangles in the center of the bride’s forehead.

The “Nath” is a traditional nose ring, comprising a stud nose ring or a hoop ring that is linked by a gold chain towards the ear or into the tiara.

The famous gold or glass bangle bracelets are called “Chudi”, and are generally worn up the arm in various colors that match the bridal sari.

A “Hathpool” is a piece of jewelry generally unique to Indian bridal jewelry, and consists of a bracelet that adorns the wrist with a jeweled chain running down the back of the hand, ending as a ring around the middle finger.

The “Bichhua” is a toe ring, generally silver, and signifies a woman’s marital status. “Payal” are anklets that are required to be worn by the bride. It is usually a silver ankle bracelet adorned with beads or gems.

While most of the jewelry is optional according to the bride’s tastes and preference, the “Anguthi” are compulsory finger gold and diamond rings, in addition to the engagement rings. Multiple anguthi rings can be worn on any of the fingers.

Another compulsory piece is the “Mangal Sutra”, which is actually plays a symbolic role in the wedding ceremony, as the groom fastens the necklace around her neck to symbolize their unity. The mangal sutra is a black beaded necklace, decorated by a diamond or gold pendant. Arm bands called “Baaju” used to be a mandatory component of bridal jewelry in the past, but are now optional. They can be worn on either one or both arms.

Although the best source of gorgeous Indian bridal jewelry is of course in India, a good deal of stunning gold and precious gemstone jewelry is available through various online shops. Cities with extensive Indian communities are another good place to look for these elegant, colorful and exotic pieces of jewelry.

The Relationship Between Finger and Wedding Ring

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Men's Wedding ring

On the day me and my fiancĂ©e bought our wedding bands I was already slightly concerned. I didn’t dare open my mouth, but I had a strong feeling that the new bond between my finger and an external metal object wouldn’t go over so smoothly.

Speaking of ‘smooth’, the thing that scared me most is that the ring couldn’t be removed from my finger, literally. Although some psychologists may not believe me, I didn’t worry about what the ring symbolizes, on the contrary. I was happy to get married and happy to have this sacred bond with the woman I love most.

My father wore his wedding ring for only two years from the day he married my mother. He can’t really remember why he took it off in the first place, probably something that has to do with toxic solutions (he’s a chemist), but to this day his finger remains naked. On the other hand, my grandfather wore his ring constantly. After a while it got stuck on his finger. Some may find this romantic, but for me it’s mostly stress inducing. Why does a piece of metal need to exist among my innocent fingers and my pure skin?

For women, particularly my wife, such a thought seems totally weird. My wife has metal pieces in many isolated locations. She wears metal items on her hands, neck, ears, legs, nose, and the list goes on and on. She is used to it, for her the feeling of metal is as familiar as the feeling of cloth touching her skin. For me this whole jewelry thing is totally new. During many daily activities I can ignore my ring’s presence but at least when I shower or sleep shouldn’t I be permitted to take it off?!

On my wedding day this ring not only had become an essential part of my life, but also an object that my wife minds whether it is constantly wrapping my finger or not. At first I couldn’t stop playing with the ring, taking it off and putting it on again. I wanted to get along with the ring, as I wish to spend many years wearing it and not continue the unromantic tradition that my father had created. I asked my wife: “Is wearing a ring similar to wearing a hat or eyeglasses, in the sense that after a while you forget it’s on you”? She answers that it is indeed this way, which made me very optimistic. I remember the first time I actually forgot ithe ring was on me. I can also recall the first time I fell asleep while wearing it. I still woke up panicked in the middle of the night, checking whether I can still take it off my finger, but it was still a big step forward!

After about a month since my wedding ceremony, I started to feel that there’s an evolving friendship between me and the ring. I usually remove it before I go to sleep every night, as I’m still concerned it might become a metallic part of my skin, but during the day it stays still, even when I am washing my hands!

I told my wife: “Pay attention that I don’t take off my wedding band even when I shower or swim in the ocean. If it gets damaged or falls off you should know that it’s only because I wear it continuously as I want to have you close by, and carry this symbol of our love with me.” Somehow, I have a feeling that these words wouldn’t really assist me in case I would in fact lose the ring, thus I have to guard it carefully.

Later on I am certain that as I never lose my wallet or keys, I can create daily habits of ring handling, so that I would never leave it behind.. My ring and I are still getting familiar with each other. I’m certain that in the future we could have a much more profound relationship.